Q&A with carmen

Question: What if you have kids with a narcissist? I've been threw hell. Can a narcissist be healed? Has Jesus ever healed a narcissist?

Answer: Jesus can heal ANY sinner. There isn't anyone He can't save. His finished work on the cross is for everyone. THAT BEING SAID. Please don't waste your time waiting for the narcissist to repent - it is very unlikely this will ever happen and the abuse you will suffer in the process is not worth it. NPD is a personality disorder- which means the persons perception of reality has been permanently distorted.

They see the world through a lens that is very different then you and me. They also lack insight and therefore are incapable of understanding that they are the problem. Someone who doesn't believe they are a sinner will not see the value in a Saviour - and these people do not believe they are wrong. Ever. I grew up with narcissists and I have a background in mental health. These people are dangerous to your mind, body, and soul.

At best, they will take advantage of your kindness, drag your name through the mud, gaslight your memories, manipulate your destiny, and then discard you like garbage on the side of the road somewhere.

​At worst? They will become obsessed with you and when you finally get tired of being their punching bag and try to leave, they will do everything in their power to destroy you - including trying to murder you.

​My advice is simple - "once you know, you go". Pray for them, love them from a distance, but stay FAR FAR AWAY from them in person. You also need to protect your children because these people are DISASTEROUS parents. Never under estimate the intentions or capabilities of a narcissist. They are truly evil. And don't be fooled by the mask - the rage you experience in private is just a glimpse of the wicked serpent they really are.

​God bless you Jacob and good luck to you!